Eastern European Muslim

A friend of mine wrote a few lines and not really answering it (I would have written there) but it made me think. Why is it really that we know more tragedies than success stories? As an aspiring psychologist, even if we are talking about tendencies, I always want to go back to the source of the problem and even in the case at hand, we do have a common root cause. The first question we need to ask is whether the woman has converted into the religion of the man and if she did, when it happened. Based on the old joke that starts "comrades, we are in a big sh*t! The Germans have attacked us!" we can say, if she hasn't there's no problem. If she has, the question is, when. If at her 30s or later, there's no problem. If at her early 20s or even earlier, well, comrades, we are in a big sh*t. Why am I saying that? I'm a Muslim, since my early twenties and I have always thought it would help me in case I were to face marital problems as we would have a com